Forge deploy command is very slow or completely fails for app with large install base

forge deploy constantly fails or takes forever to complete, even when it succeeds. Looks like it tries to list installations (why does it need to list?) and that is slow because we have 2.3k installs.

Error: The deployment failed due to errors while trying to list app installations.

Error: The underlying service call timed out (requestId: a987c6a2cc3537fd)