I’m sorry, but the “no-Docker tunnel” (I’m assuming from Quick tip: Tunneling without Docker (useful for Apple Silicon / M1)), specifically FORGE_DEV_TUNNEL, isn’t officially supported.
We are aware of some crashes in it (including on Node 16, maybe you were lucky there) - you can try disabling the snapshotting as a workaround, but that still comes with no warranty.
We are working on simplifying the tunnel experience (no Docker required) as part of the Native Node.js runtime which is currently in EAP - you might want to give that a try if Docker tunnel gives you problems.